This past weekend was one of my favourite of the year. The first 2 rounds of the NCAA men’s basketball tournament are incredibly fun to watch – probably because, if you enter a pool with friends or family, you have a routing interest in just about every game. Every year, I fill out my bracket and watch to see if the perennial powerhouses will move on or if a underdog will, for “one shining moment,” capture the imagination of many.
Watching March Madness games, you quickly realize 2 things. First is that the better team doesn’t always win. The second is that a 40 minute game can come down to one play. In that moment, it would seem that the outcomes of the game are determined by whether the final shot goes in or bounces out. But in truth, there are hundreds of other events that all contribute to which team wins. Split second decisions early in the game can have a huge impact on how it plays out and if that last shot means anything at all.
Each game is different. Some of them go pretty much according to plan, and others play out in a way that no one expected. In a way, our lives are a lot like that. Up until recently, I hadn’t really considered that my life could have played out much different than it has. Not that my decisions didn’t matter, but I believed that if I sought God’s will and was obedient to it, I would end up in a certain place no matter what. If asked, I would have told you I was on the path God had for me and that He would direct me where to go – the right doors would open and the wrong ones wouldn’t. Not that I didn’t have free will, but as long as I didn’t do anything obviously wrong, I would end up in the same place.
I have come to the realization that is simply not true. As much as I believe God is guiding me, I know that the decisions I have made have had a great impact on where I am today. There are many times when I felt God directing my path, but other times that there was no clear right choice. Of course, I will never know what would have happened if I had made different choices along the way – or even which choices had the greatest impact on my life.
What I do know, with confidence, is that God has been with me ever step of the way. No matter what choices I made, He has remained faithful. I will be forever grateful that God has blessed me the the family, friends and opportunities that He has. I know that He would have watched over me if I had made different choices and while the friends and opportunities would have been different, God would still remain faithful.
I also know that God will continue to walk with me through life. I don’t know what will happen next – life, like college basketball, is unpredictable – but I can rest assured that my Heavenly Father will be there no matter which way the ball bounces.